Yes turkiya, you are 100% correct.

Yes turkiya, you are 100% correct. Even us older, fatter,

grayer, slower wusses can learn new tricks. I went from a

4 time loser to being called biggest old stud in town! Now

that was a hell of an ego boost! Especially since I'm 48

and close to 300 lbs. and yes, at the moment, I have steady

dates for 3 days of the week every week and 5 others

professing their love for me if only I will come take them

away.



Here are what I found to work:



1) Women over 35 expect you to be extremely inventive with

a cocky funny line or extremely truthful. They all claim it

is because they have had so many used on them, they are

totally immune to them. I tend to go the extremely truthful

route. the ie. you look like the type of woman who would

like a funny witty, intelligent, romantic friend. Have you

found any lately??? I want to shake their hand. Or something

similar.



2) If you are emailing back and forth and they want your

picture within the first couple of exchanges, run do not

walk, that lady to the discard pile immediately. Most of

those are so shallow they can not and will not see what

they are doing, no matter how funny and blunt you are. I

even tried the "what’s in it for me?" line, only to get the

reply of "me stupid, but only if I like your picture"



3) When the lady says I don't think I'm really your type,

you look them straight in the eye and say "ok, plenty more

where you came from" and turn and walk away. 9 out of 10

of them will be calling you in 48 hours.



4) They all know about arranging dates for the week and

finding the dates on the weekend. So tell them you only

have like Friday, Saturday OR Sunday open but not all.

Most will tell you to rearrange your week to fit them in.

The ones really really interested will call you on Saturday

to see if you can go out on the spur of the moment.



5) I tell them all I am too much to handle and too much to

love, so being friends is just perfect. But I have zero

experience in this dating more than one woman thing at a

time. Do you have any advice. Especially since I am sure

to make a lot of mistakes. Yeah, they all want to arrange

more time with me.



So you see, your techniques work. Even my 21 y/o daughter

who reads these occasionally says, "I can't agree all the

way, but damn he sure got the last 5 guys I dated nailed"



Keep up the good work turkiya.



M.