This is an AWESOME example of how to be COCKY AND FUNNY!

This is an AWESOME example of how to be COCKY AND FUNNY!



You're the man. My hero even.



To answer your question...



This is one of those issues that doesn't have a "right"

answer, but in GENERAL it's not a good idea to be the

"girlfriend" early on in the game.



After date number 10 do whatever you want. (In other

words, it's safer to help her with a situation like this

without being unconsciously thought of as "girlfriend-

man" later in the relationship. Just don't do it too

often or you'll become a Wuss candidate.)



Here's a good way to deal with "a woman that you're

getting to know who wants help with her problems":



As soon as you hear the "I have a problem and want

someone to talk to about it" tone of voice, IMMEDIATELY

ask "Is this something you want to solve or is it

something you want to just TALK about?"



If she just wants to TALK about it, say "I'll tell you

what, I think that you'd be better off talking to a

girlfriend about this, because I don't want to turn

into an old married couple so soon."



There's a fine line between being a cold human being

and letting her know that you're not her personal

free therapist.



Personal free therapists who "listen" are thought of as

WUSSY-BOY-GIRLIE-MAN-FRIENDS (as you well know)... and

their behavior doen NOT create ATTRACTION.