COMMENT

It seems like a lot of the guys who subscribe to your


newsletter and buy the book - myself included - are average

guys who have trouble with girls just because they are

afraid of getting rejected. I've got an idea that might

help. Get two or three good friends together and have a

'contest' where the goal is to get shot down. Spend a day

or a night out in clubs, coffee shops, malls, etc. going up

to girls with the sole intention of having them reject you,

and whoever gets rejected the most times wins. Try out any

approach - good or bad - you can think of. Be rude, crude,

funny, serious, a nice guy, a jerk, whatever you want, and

take notes on how the girls react. If she slaps your face,

that's fine because that's the goal. And if she doesn't

shoot you down, that's even better. After a night like

this you'll become a bit 'numb' when you are rejected in

the future, and you'll have a better understanding of how

girls react to being hit on. If necessary go to a

different city for the weekend and try it out there, so

that you aren't afraid of running into these girls again.



- C.L.