***SUCCESS STORY***

turkiya:




Dated someone for 4 years. Turned into a wussy boy a couple

times, and both times she left me for the same guy. This guy

was a selfish, conceited jerk, but he was the ONLY guy she's

ever dated who she couldn't wrap around her finger. He was

P.S. Took this off the end of the 1st paragraph above...it


was getting too long, but I love this perspective from a

woman: While investigating this illogical phenomenon, I

asked a somewhat-attractive female friend of mine "so...can

you shed any light onto the whole 'why women are attracted

to jerks' idea?" And her answer (quote): "Because we're

too leary of a nice guy. Nice guys creep me out. They seem

like I can walk all over them and I hate that. Women want

a bit of a challenge."
an impossible challenge...and so her sexual attraction to

him was enormous. (Hmmm...is there a lesson to be learned

here...?) Since we broke up about a year ago, I've been

reading your newsletters and your ebooks. Now I'M the

challenging one. I don't flatter women with compliments, I

don't buy drinks or flowers, I split the dinner tab, I

don't always call (or call back) every day, I keep my social

life busy and interesting. And I never ever EVER lose my

composure with a woman - no matter how much I'm attracted to

them. (In truth: I caved to one woman, told her how

attracted I was to her, and instantly found myself in the

"just friends" pit of no return. Oops. Had to learn the

hard way.) Now every time a woman tries to test my level of

"wussiness" I completely annihilate them with a cocky+funny

comment...and they LOVE me for it. And...of course...guess

who suddenly wants to date me again...



Thanks D,

M.S.

Chicago