On vacation in Mexico, a girl asked me if she was "super

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On vacation in Mexico, a girl asked me if she was "super

hot" and I said "Yeah, you're alright." Next thing you know

she made it her business to prove to me how hot she was,

including some freaky dancing, even flashing me, and a

little lip action. Moral: Never give them what the want. I

moved in to kiss a girl a little too early and she backed

away. So I went back to teasing her and on the next attempt

I went straight for the neck, ears, hands in hair and well

you wouldn't believe it; but it worked that time. Your book

has a lot of very good information, thank you for putting it

together. So here's my question: This girl at my gym is of

those that I've always wanted to talk to but never really

had the chance. She was bartending the other night and I

told her I'd seen her at the gym. She said "yeah, but I

don't make it in there as much lately." I replied "Yeah, I

can tell, you're really letting yourself go." Then she gives

me a shot and asks me if I'd help her with her workout." She

also said she remembered me from the gym and I said "So you

were checking me out?" So I get her number, not bad, eh? So

I'm in the bar for another hour with some friends and I was

going to order a drink from her later, but it might've

seemed like I wanted to talk to her again. She seemed busy

and didn't look at me. Seemingly wuss behavior or she's just

busy? Who knows. That was on Saturday and I called her on

Wednesday, still no reply and today is Friday. I'm thinking

either calling her once more over the weekend, asking about

playing hard to get and if she just randomly gives out

shots, or maybe going back to her bar in a week or two with

some friends. Again, thank you for all you've done and

thanks in advance for any suggestions.

A.