I thoroughly enjoyed reading your blog...very enlightening.

Hi turkiya,




I thoroughly enjoyed reading your blog...very enlightening.

I've always found myself attracting girls I'm not

romantically interested in, while crashing and burning with

the hotties. It was very confusing until I read your book.

I realize now that I was a wuss with the hotties by being a

typical "nice guy", and that the more I acted indifferent

with the girls I didn't like, the more they ate it up. You

gave me a new perspective on what makes attraction work,

and I'm glad to see that your book pointed out that you

don't have to be a jerk to be successful.



My game has improved but it still requires some refining.

Lately I find I'm stalling out between the first and second

date. So I'm wondering if I'm screwing up the date itself or

the follow-through. Here are the steps I take after a date:



1) I call within two days to say I had a good time and

basically make contact. I end the conversation first, and

let her know I'll give her a shout in a couple days...just

so I don't seem like I'm rushing into a second date.



2) I let two or three days pass and call to make

arrangements for a second date. At this point I usually

get a vague answer like "lets set something up for next

week"...and then it never happens.



Where is this falling apart and what kind of follow-through

do you use?



Thanks for the help,



SF

London, Ontario