I’m a premed student who has been subscribing to your

Hey turkiya....




I’m a premed student who has been subscribing to your

newsletter for quite a while now. I've been meaning to buy

your book but im not in the habit of using a credit card so

ill have to open an account especially for this. Anyway,

i've been going out with this girl for 9 months now. She is

smart, attractive, and funny. the way i landed her was by

being cocky funny. EXTREMELY cocky funny. i was always one

step ahead of her. It was kind of like "Dont even TRY to

challenge me, im already inside your head!". everything was

cool. but to tell the truth (and no offense) i just kind of

got tired of the constant effort.....so i cooled it off a

bit not always seizing the opportunity to remind her just

who it is she's dealing with. And i think i got screwed.

Now i feel like i've turned into a wuss....and i HATE IT !!!

no..I LOATHE IT !!!!!!!!!! When i turn on the macho act

she's a pussy cat again. You see i want someone to whom i

can genuinely be....just nice to, with her appreciating it

and NOT taking advantage. i mean since this is a long-term

relationship i want someone who will give me a smooth ride

without all that continuos maintenance. I dont wanna be

cocky and tough all my life with her, sometimes a guy just

wants to relax. Is it possible??



F.Z, Lebanon