I'm going to have to guess at a few things, but I'll give

I'm going to have to guess at a few things, but I'll give

it a shot.



From the sounds of it, you need to:



1) Stop with the "I had a good time" type comments when

you call for a follow up. You might experiment with

waiting longer to call... or waiting less time to call.

See what works best for you. But don't be so "nice".



2) Do more things to make your date feel ATTRACTION. Use

what you've learned to really turn the dial up. You might

test progressing further on the first date... maybe start

getting physical faster.



3) Make sure you keep her laughing, and keep busting on

her and treating her like a "friend" at first. Remember

the idea of acting like she's your Bratty Little Sister.



It sounds like you're doing something on those first

dates that's making the women resistant to seeing you

again... you need to figure out what it is and STOP IT.