Wednesday, November 3, 2010

>>>MY COMMENTS:

I feel your pain on this one.




For the most part, men are expected to take ALL THE RISK of

being rejected at EVERY IMPORTANT STEP from the first meeting

to the bedroom.



And we always know when one of those risky situations is

staring us right between the eyes...



"Should I kiss her? Maybe she's not ready and I'll screw up

ALL of my chances with her."



"Should I call her so soon? What will she think?"



"How should I ask her out?"



...I get it. These are what I call "Critical Moments" or

"Moments Of Truth."



If you don't know how to handle each of them, you're VERY

likely to get hung up, not know what to do, and wind up

not doing ANYTHING to avoid the chance of screwing up.



Of course, not doing anything usually leads to a woman

thinking "He's a Wussy... can't even kiss me."



And on the other side, if you're too aggressive and "fast"

for her you might offend her and scare her off... RIGHT?



My solution is to create "Bridges" to get you from one

Critical Moment to the next... smoothly.



There are things you can do at each step that make it

NATURAL for things to progress.



Try this: Sit down with a piece of paper and write down

ten ways that you can "Take the next step" in any given

situation. Then choose the one or two that you think will

work best, and mentally rehearse them until you can

CLEARLY SEE how they'll work in your mind's eye.



OR, you can download a copy of my eBook "Double Your

Dating". It comes with a bonus booklet called "Bridges"

which contains my favorite ways to take things from

one step to the next...

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