Well, I don't exactly know what you mean by "serious".

Well, I don't exactly know what you mean by "serious".




If you mean "When can I talk about how I'm sad because

my dog got run over and my inner child needs a hug", then

NEVER is the answer.



Well, maybe you can have one "serious" conversation like

this on the 10th date, and it can last no longer than 5

minutes.



Just stay away from heavy emotional issues, problems,

drama, and general WUSS topics.



If you need a friend, GET A DOG!



lol... I forgot where that line is from, but I love it.







***QUESTION***



Mr. DeAngelo,



Well, I've got to say, after trying many, many different

methods, yours have been the first ones to work. I cut and

pasted your online personal add and sent it out to a few

women on a college-oriented site. This is after trying

(unsuccessfully) for many months to get any sort of response

from the women on the site. Before reading the newsletters,

I would've typically sent out about 20 e-mails, and got 1

response if I was lucky. This time, however, I sent out

about 5 or 6, and got 3 replies the next day! Unbelievable!

Now, for the tricky part...getting the number and the date.

I've got some leads, and I want to keep my C&F attitude up.

I'm just normally funny, but need practice at being cocky.

(I'm either too subtle, or too extreme, so I'm practicing at

finding a middle ground.) But, in the meantime, what kind of

C&F response would you give to a University-aged woman?



G.



>>>MY COMMENTS:



Good job.



There are all kinds of great topics you could work with.



You could make fun of the classes they're taking, bust on

them for taking easy classes, accuse them of taking 10

years to get a 4 year degree... the list is endless.



Since you're going to be meeting these women at some

point, make sure you go and do things with them that have

"built in conversation value". Go to interesting, fun

parts of town with unusual and interesting shops.



This kind of thing creates all kinds of opportunity

for great comments... and it keeps the energy up all by

itself.



Now that you're meeting women online, do yourself a

big favor and practice your skills CHATTING with women.



Chatting is great because it slows the conversation down

to about 1/5 the normal speed, and gives you time to plan

out what you're saying.







***QUESTION***



Dear turkiya,



I'm real sorry but I still cannot figure out how to build

bridges after getting the email address. Normally the next

day I send the lady an email, she replies and then I can't

think what on earth else to do. My overall goal is to get

with her - so can you help me man?



I.M.

I would love to say how great your stuff works,

Whats goin on turkiya?




I would love to say how great your stuff works, but I

haven't had much luck with it as of yet. I have seen it put

to good use though. My bro does the whole cocky/funny

routine naturally and I see all its power. Most of the time

I was Mr. Nice-Guy. and, of course, it didn't work as much

as I would like. Which is why I'm writing this e-mail.(duh)



My problem is I'm missing the key ingredient to your

'super recipe,' funny. The way I see it, cocky is like

garlic, by itself it is repulsive and disgusting. But when

used as a seasoning to another main dish (funny), it can do

wonders. I'm missing the main dish. Anyone can be cocky, but

I lack in the funny department. So where do I start to fix

this?



Thanks,

P in NJ