Once you get a default way to handle each common
situation, and you start experiencing SUCCESS on a regular
basis with women, you'll GAIN the ability to create
better ideas on the spot.
Action Steps:
1) Choose the one situation that happens most often, the one
that you'd like to have an EXACT default sequence of words
and behaviors to use to get you to the next level.
2) Close your eyes, and mentally run through the last five
or ten situations like this that you were in.
3) Brainstorm 10 or 20 great ways that you could handle
this particular situation in the future.
4) Choose the one single best idea on the list, and refine
it down to an exact sequence.
5) Close your eyes again and mentally rehearse it. See
yourself doing it in your mind's eye. Move around and play
it out... if you need to stand up, do it. Actually imagine
that a woman is in the room with you, and pretend that
you're getting her number, kissing her, or whatever.
6) If your mom comes into your room, quickly transition
into "Macbeth" and claim that you were improvising on
Shakespeare!
Seriously, it's ULTRA important for you to know what
you're going to do next time you're talking to a woman and
you want to ask for her email of phone number.
If you don't know what you're going to do and exactly
how to do it, then you're probably going to come across
like Mr. Smooth in the cel phone store...
Here's the irony of this situation:
WOMEN WANT YOU TO TAKE THE NEXT STEP!
But if you don't, then they won't either.
A woman will think to herself... "He seems nice, funny,
interesting. I wish he'd ask me for my number... Oh, he's
nervous... how cute. Well, if he can't get up the nerve to
ask me for my number, then I'm not going to overcome his
inner WUSSY and do it for him. Poor thing."
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