I just broke with my wife of six years. So I´m starting

Hi turkiya!



I just broke with my wife of six years. So I´m starting

the game again. I went to a club this past weekend and

saw a very nice looking girl. She was looking at me a

lot. So I waited around ten minutes and then approach and

asked her, "Are you shy or something?" She said, Why? And

I told her "Because I've been standing here for around ten

minutes and you still haven't said hi to me." As you can

imagine she burst laughing. So I said, Hey, I'm glad you

know how to laugh. She said, So, is this the way you go

out meeting girls. I said, Nah, it's that every time I go

to some place that have girls present they all seem to

get very shy around me, since I'm such a great looking,

sexy man, AS you can see. (Said with a wink).



She kind of blush and smile. We talk for around ten

minutes and I then said, Well, let me see if I can find

my friends around here, It was a pleasure talking to you.

When I was leaving I did your e-mail close and it ran

smoothly. She put her phone number too and a note that

said, "No, I'm not shy, call me soon, C."



E.Q. From Puerto Rico



PS. In your last mailbag there was a guy who used the

c&f routine with his ex wife as practice and it worked to

get her interested in him again. I was wondering what

stuff he told her and how he did it. I'm very interested

to know his technique to see if I can get my ex wife

interested in me again.

Hey, I've been receiving your emails for awhile, and have

Hey, I've been receiving your emails for awhile, and have


been thinking, does this stuff work on guys as well? I'm

an attractive 18 yr old, and I don't often have problems

attracting males attention, but that’s about it. I don't

often get approached in clubs/bars, just looked at from

afar. Do guys think woman are promiscuous etc if they

make the first move? I mean does that kind of confidence

in a woman scare men off? A little help would be most

appreciated!



Ta!



JD

New Zealand





>>>MY COMMENTS:



Wow, now I've got attractive 18 year old women who are

trying to figure out how to get men to talk to them.



IS ANYONE OUT THERE LISTENING?



I've actually met MANY women who say that they either

aren't approached often, or when they are it's the same

old lame, boring stuff time after time...



"Can I take you out sometime?"



"So you probably have a boyfriend, right?"



Or guys just watch with the "I wish I wasn't such a

total and complete WUSSY because you're very attractive

and I'd give one of my front teeth in exchange for just

one chance to talk to you" look.



Ugh.



In any event, YES, this stuff works on guys. In fact, it

works on just about everyone. Damn shame you even need

to ask.

OK, first of all, WHY THE HELL DIDN'T YOU INCLUDE YOUR

OK, first of all, WHY THE HELL DIDN'T YOU INCLUDE YOUR


PHONE NUMBER?



I was just thinking to myself:



"You know, it sure would be great to meet an athletic,

feminine woman with a good job... maybe an architect or

something."



I don't know about the conservative, no cussing thing...

maybe I could adapt.



But to my credit, I'm NOT squishy, I have NO IDEA how to

make a strawberry daiquiri, and I hate purse shopping. I

do, however like to host an occasional tupperware party.



Think about it and get back to me.



Oh, back to your comments...



Thank you for writing in and providing another perspective.

I wish that more women would be as open and honest about

what attracts them.



I personally think that women like you who have their

lives together are too busy ENJOYING life to take the time

out to teach the mass of WUSS-BAG men out there how to

stop with the purse shopping and tupperware.



Thanks again for your email... I love sharp, honest women.

Remember the woman that had a friend that wanted to slap

Dear turkiya,




Remember the woman that had a friend that wanted to slap

the sh** out of you - you know, the crack pipe chick? That

woman was right about one thing - someone needs to get

slapped.



She does and so do all of her milk toast, clueless and

probably dog-ugly friends! How in the world did she get

"lesbian" twisted into all of that? I read the e-mail for

crying out loud, and it sounds to me like this girl's in a

slump that makes the Devil Rays look like World Series

contenders.



Injure a woman's delicate psyche? Give me a break. I hope

you guys out there don't believe a word of this girl's

whiny crap. If your girlfriends agree with her, I hope you

don't mind turning squishy and you better find a good

recipe for strawberry daiquiris and start planning for a

life filled with tupperware parties and purse shopping.



Let me set all of you guys straight who might still

possibly be on the fence at this point. Get turkiya's book.

I haven't read it yet - I'm still crackin' up over the

newsletter. I'm an attractive woman architect who works

in a man's world and would have it no other way! I'm

athletic, but still feminine. I'm pretty conservative and

don't cuss (anymore) so I'm proof that it's not just the

rough women that get turned on by the sport of a

challenging male. turkiya's right - I have a lot of male

friends and most of them want to be more than friends. I

could never put my finger on it before I started reading

turkiya's newsletters - they were nice and I've certainly

dated guys that weren't nearly as good looking as them,

but it's clear to me now. My guy friends are wusses.

Cocky + funny = SEXY! Don't ask me why, just do it. I

wish more of you would.



By the way, turkiya, the chicks out here that read (and

appreciate) your newsletter, need a formula, too.



Sincerely,



ks in Kansas City

I love letters like this one. Good for you!

I love letters like this one. Good for you!




It sounds to me like the process of getting this area of

your life handled has you pretty excited. Let it spill over

into the other areas of your life.



Great job!