QUESTION

Hi Turkiya,




Well, let me start with my story. I'm average guy, 22

years old. I always had the fear to approach beautiful

women. I'm funny by nature, but only with my friends.

I've totally changed my behavior with women, when I've

read your book. I now meet women on every step (bar,

caffe, library,...), using your C&F approach and a lot

of them are in my bed in a week or so. Now the only

problem at the moment is, that all of those women want a

commitment. But I would love to be just a "sex-buddy";).

Of course, they don't want to hear about that. So after

first sex, when I try to explain to her, what I want,

either she gets mad and I can go ;) or I am the biggest

male egoist... bla bla bla.



So, tell me, is there any way to do that with success?



Tnx again,



B. from Slovenia

MY COMMENTS

Well, I'm not the relationship expert, so I'm not going to


address how you should choose a woman to settle down with...



But I will comment on your question of whether or not there

is a point when you should stop "playing games" and "be

nice to these women".



The mindset and techniques that I teach are not my idea of

a "short term technique to get laid". Once you start using

the methods, you'll find that women respond to them on an

ONGOING basis. In other words, if you can keep up the

charming, Cocky and Funny attitude, it will keep a woman

feeling attracted to you FOREVER.



"Nice" is not a word that you want associated with yourself,

in my opinion. Women aren't ATTRACTED to guys who are "nice".



Be interesting, unpredictable... even thoughtful and original.



But don't be NICE.



Think about it.

MY COMMENTS:

First of all, YES, there are women who will only talk


to you if you have money...



BUT THIS IS NOT THE RULE... IT'S THE EXCEPTION.



If a woman feels the magical emotion of ATTRACTION, then

it matters not how much money you have.



I used to believe that it was probably only guys who had

nice cars and lots of cash got to go out with all the

women...



But then, as I got to know more and more guys who were

VERY successful with women, I realized that it came down

to their personalities more than anything else... including

looks, height, money, etc.



In fact, MOST of the guys who I've met that are very

successful with women aren't rich at all.



You need to learn how to make women feel ATTRACTION by

using your personality. That's the ticket.



Really.





***QUESTION***



Hi Dave:



I have been reading your material for a few months now.

One of the best things I learned about your work is how

to get e-mail addresses and phone numbers from women. I

have great success at this point. This has also helped

my business.



I need help in two areas that involves taking it to the

next level. I want to meet a nice girl and settle down.

Firstly, how can I figure out which one of these girls

is the BEST for me in terms of personality and chemistry.

My last relationship lasted a year and a half and did not

work because we were always busting each others chops.

Secondly, I think there is a point when we just need to

stop playing games and be nice to these women... What do

you think?



B. NYC

COMMENT

It seems like a lot of the guys who subscribe to your


newsletter and buy the book - myself included - are average

guys who have trouble with girls just because they are

afraid of getting rejected. I've got an idea that might

help. Get two or three good friends together and have a

'contest' where the goal is to get shot down. Spend a day

or a night out in clubs, coffee shops, malls, etc. going up

to girls with the sole intention of having them reject you,

and whoever gets rejected the most times wins. Try out any

approach - good or bad - you can think of. Be rude, crude,

funny, serious, a nice guy, a jerk, whatever you want, and

take notes on how the girls react. If she slaps your face,

that's fine because that's the goal. And if she doesn't

shoot you down, that's even better. After a night like

this you'll become a bit 'numb' when you are rejected in

the future, and you'll have a better understanding of how

girls react to being hit on. If necessary go to a

different city for the weekend and try it out there, so

that you aren't afraid of running into these girls again.



- C.L.

Find an attractive woman

Find an attractive woman and read this newsletter to


her. She'll laugh her ass off at what I just wrote. Really.



Of course, if you would like to take a look at the

"Teacher's Edition" of the high-school algebra book and

learn some of the secrets that it's taken me literally

YEARS to learn, then I'd recommend that you download a copy

of my online eBook "Double Your Dating." It's full of

literally DOZENS of the very best ideas for taking things

from one step to the next. Just go to:

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